Has anyone experienced this before?

[ellejae]

My husband and I are currently separated, we have been for a week. There are many issues.......I found some stuff on Nov. 10 that opened my eyes and made me more aware. We were separated on Nov. 22.

What disturbs me is this: he has been taking my things and I don't know where he kept them. When we separated last Saturday, suddenly massive amounts of my stuff showed up....my mother's jewelry (not all of it, but quite a bit), clothes, scented lotions, letters from my Great Aunt Millie, toe socks, underwear......all of these things were not in the places they should've been and I'm wondering if any wives out there have experienced this and if so, what causes it? I'm scared, and I don't know if it should make me scared.

We've been married for 7 months.....

[Riss]

ellajae-

Have you been counseling with your Pastor/pastor's wife, or other counselor about this? Where are you at in your circumstances currently?