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[purity]

Ok this is nothing too deep   :-/ but I was just sitting thinking and I thought hhhhhhhmmm maybe I should ask some folks with wisdom how to handle this situation. So here it is.

Would it be a bad idea to go back to your significant other after having a conversation the day before to ask him more questions.      

[Forum Administrator]

Hi Purity. I obviously don't know the details of your situation, but based on what you said and the doubt you are expressing, here are some questions that might help you to decide what to do:

1. Are you clear on what the question is you want to ask?
2. Have you been honest with yourself about your motive for wanting to ask?
3. Is it a good motive?
4. Will the asking of your question be a positive thing for your friend?
5. Are you prepared for the response?

If the answer to any of the above is 'no,' my suggestion is don't ask that question.

[purity]

thanks a bunch!